I have know my husband for 5 years we have worked at two places together (one for 3 and this one for 2) and i have been his supervisor at both places. It is pretty easy for us to separate our work life from our personal life, because we have worked together since we met. Our main obstacle is other people. Some of the other guys I supervise used to have a problem, they would think when they go in trouble I was picking on them and say my husband could get away with anything. Thats not right, my husband just understands to do as he is asked to keep the conflict down. After the other guys seen me ball my husband out for not doing something I told him and the guys realized that I am just as tough on him as them I won back their respect, and now they rag on him asking "is she this bad at home?" Not only did we have to earn co workers but the respect of MY supervisors. It all depends on your relationship and your bf/hubbys ego and pride.
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