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Should I give him a second chance and trust
Old 08-27-2008, 02:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Should I give him a second chance and trust

him, or leave him? I knew him in late January 2008 from website, and we started dating in mid February, I only knew he was married once and divorced 10 years ago. We fall in love to each other soon, and in late May he proposed to me and we engaged.However everything has changed since 3 weeks ago. Before he told me he had a girl friend and they lived together for over 1 year, then they broke up in November 2008, since we told me about her, I always feel something between them that he didn’t tell me. Until 3 weeks ago, on June 23, he told me that he and her actually got married in 2006, but he filed divorce in January this year, his wife signed the paper in April, so now is waiting for finalized which is expected occurred on October 6, 2008.He always said he is deeply in love with me, he loves me more than every one he’s been with, he wants to marry me and spend the rest of life with me. But since I found out he’s been hiding the truth from me for this long time, I can’t trust him any more. Also I think maybe he is still thinking of his wife, because he still keeps her picture and personal information in his wallet, and he still marked down her birthday on the calendar, but he told me that’s his friend’s birthday, is it true and just a coincidence? I really don’t know. I still love him, and he keeps reinforce he doesn’t go back to the same trip, means he won’t go back to her, he wants to be with me and he only loves me, but how come I still feel there is something else still between him and her.I am so confused. What should I do? Please help me.
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